You know I think being blown off a site is different than getting left behind. In most cases the dive boats are aware and looking for the divers. I take this question to be how does a boat forget or get mislead enough to leave a site completely without a diver... I have seen it "almost" happen twice this year on 2 different liveaboards. Both instances involved crew who were diving solo. One had a camera and the other was just enjoying mantas.
My buddy and I were the last 2 customers on the site which had quite a bit of current so the safety stop was in the blue. As we began our safety stop I saw our DM/guide hunkered behind a bommie watching mantas and he saw us. (We lost him during the dive after 15 min) After our safety stop we popped up and the tender took us back to the boat. Twice I said he was still out there and they just nodded. The tenders go back and forth so I figured they would go back. When we got back to the boat I took my gear off and kept my eye on the dive site. Eventually I saw his head pop up with no tender in site. I walk back to where the tenders were and they were already hoisting them up. I told them again that he was still in the water and they just looked at me like I was crazy. After a bit of hand pointing and repeating myself they figured it out. He was just getting picked up by another boat's tender when they got to him.
This was his first cruise with this crew so they were not used to him and most guides come back with their customers. This guy was in it for himself not his customers so I think it was easy for them to assume everyone was back on board.
The other was not with customers and off taking pictures solo, I can't remember how long it took for someone to figure it out.
My buddy and I were the last 2 customers on the site which had quite a bit of current so the safety stop was in the blue. As we began our safety stop I saw our DM/guide hunkered behind a bommie watching mantas and he saw us. (We lost him during the dive after 15 min) After our safety stop we popped up and the tender took us back to the boat. Twice I said he was still out there and they just nodded. The tenders go back and forth so I figured they would go back. When we got back to the boat I took my gear off and kept my eye on the dive site. Eventually I saw his head pop up with no tender in site. I walk back to where the tenders were and they were already hoisting them up. I told them again that he was still in the water and they just looked at me like I was crazy. After a bit of hand pointing and repeating myself they figured it out. He was just getting picked up by another boat's tender when they got to him.
This was his first cruise with this crew so they were not used to him and most guides come back with their customers. This guy was in it for himself not his customers so I think it was easy for them to assume everyone was back on board.
The other was not with customers and off taking pictures solo, I can't remember how long it took for someone to figure it out.