ZapDiver
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Hi!
When I learned to dive, about 7 years ago, My instructor told me that it wasn't a good idea for a couple to dive together as buddies (I can't remember her reasons).
My Girlfriend have just been certified 2 months ago, and we went to her 2nd dive trip last weekend. The first day we were joined in the boat by one instructor and one DM (at least they introduced him as such) provided by the Dive shop. Since I was aware that my GF needed to work on her dive skills and I don't consider myself fully prepared to act on an amergency (and having in mind what my instructor said), I talked to the instructor and told him that I'd like someone more experienced than me to be my GF buddy. He agreed and paired her with the other DM.
So, we went into the water, the instructor and other diver leading, my GF and the DM behind them and my buddy and me closing the group. About 5 minutes into the dive, I saw that my GF Buddy was somewhat like 15 feet ahead of her and not paying any atention to her. a little bit later, I saw that my GF (ignored by her buddy ) started a slow but uncontrolled ascent, so I swam up to her, grabbed her jacket, deflated her BCD, made sure she was calm and signaled her to go to the surface (at that point that was just about 10 ft above us), Back in the surface she told me that she had trouble with her buoyancy and that trying to keep up with her buddy made it worse. So I told her to forget about her former Buddy and to just stick with me and my Buddy (who was waiting below us). At this time the instructor had surfaced with us and donned her one of the extra weights he carried so she could be less positive. So we went back down and the rest of the dive was really great. For the rest of the dives, we ditched the DM and formed a 3-Buddy team, wich worked great.
So, after having this experience I'd like to ask the instructors, DMs and such, what are your opinions about having a couple teaming up as dive buddies? What reasons would you have against that? Why should I rely on someone else to watch over my GF (At least until she improves her diving skills)?
Thanks in advance.
P.S. I later learned that the "DM" was really just fresh out of the rescue diver course and working his way up to beeing certified as a DM.
When I learned to dive, about 7 years ago, My instructor told me that it wasn't a good idea for a couple to dive together as buddies (I can't remember her reasons).
My Girlfriend have just been certified 2 months ago, and we went to her 2nd dive trip last weekend. The first day we were joined in the boat by one instructor and one DM (at least they introduced him as such) provided by the Dive shop. Since I was aware that my GF needed to work on her dive skills and I don't consider myself fully prepared to act on an amergency (and having in mind what my instructor said), I talked to the instructor and told him that I'd like someone more experienced than me to be my GF buddy. He agreed and paired her with the other DM.
So, we went into the water, the instructor and other diver leading, my GF and the DM behind them and my buddy and me closing the group. About 5 minutes into the dive, I saw that my GF Buddy was somewhat like 15 feet ahead of her and not paying any atention to her. a little bit later, I saw that my GF (ignored by her buddy ) started a slow but uncontrolled ascent, so I swam up to her, grabbed her jacket, deflated her BCD, made sure she was calm and signaled her to go to the surface (at that point that was just about 10 ft above us), Back in the surface she told me that she had trouble with her buoyancy and that trying to keep up with her buddy made it worse. So I told her to forget about her former Buddy and to just stick with me and my Buddy (who was waiting below us). At this time the instructor had surfaced with us and donned her one of the extra weights he carried so she could be less positive. So we went back down and the rest of the dive was really great. For the rest of the dives, we ditched the DM and formed a 3-Buddy team, wich worked great.
So, after having this experience I'd like to ask the instructors, DMs and such, what are your opinions about having a couple teaming up as dive buddies? What reasons would you have against that? Why should I rely on someone else to watch over my GF (At least until she improves her diving skills)?
Thanks in advance.
P.S. I later learned that the "DM" was really just fresh out of the rescue diver course and working his way up to beeing certified as a DM.
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