How do you deal with this? I've primarily dived with instabuddies. Last week I had the privilege of diving with several. Three of them were obviously much more experienced than I and one had more dives but relatively comparable experience as he's just returning to the sport after a very long hiatus. 1 of the significantly more experienced was useless as a buddy. She clearly had good diving skills but horrible buddy skills preferring to treat her dive as a solo with onlookers. In her defense she was taking pictures so I sort of understand it a little. I didn't appreciate her insistence that we stay down longer when the other two divers (myself and other "newb") said it was time to surface. (Not an air thing, just a "it's getting dark and we don't want to get ticketed" thing.)
So, the other lesser experienced diver was a great guy. However, after diving with him 3 days in a row I wasn't sure how best to approach his habit of swimming away from me, standing on or kicking the bottom, swimming fast from place to place and generally being too involved with navigating and not as much in paying attention to his dive buddies. One of the other more experienced divers (and I) motioned for him to stay off the bottom a couple of times during one of the dives and it didn't seem like he understood the signs.
We did discuss some hand signals before diving each dive and I tried to expand them with things I thought made sense but I'm curious how blunt people are post-dive with dive buddies who are inexperienced but otherwise good people to dive with and willing to try and learn. As a newb myself I occasionally find it difficult to point out other people's weaknesses since I can't really tell if I'm being a hypocrite without more video of me diving. We had some fairly direct but not pointed discussions about buoyancy control and I got the distinct impression the guy thought he was doing a good job even after I mentioned he was on the bottom a few times.
So, how do you educate people about their skill level and ways to improve without sounding like a dick, especially as a newbie?
So, the other lesser experienced diver was a great guy. However, after diving with him 3 days in a row I wasn't sure how best to approach his habit of swimming away from me, standing on or kicking the bottom, swimming fast from place to place and generally being too involved with navigating and not as much in paying attention to his dive buddies. One of the other more experienced divers (and I) motioned for him to stay off the bottom a couple of times during one of the dives and it didn't seem like he understood the signs.
We did discuss some hand signals before diving each dive and I tried to expand them with things I thought made sense but I'm curious how blunt people are post-dive with dive buddies who are inexperienced but otherwise good people to dive with and willing to try and learn. As a newb myself I occasionally find it difficult to point out other people's weaknesses since I can't really tell if I'm being a hypocrite without more video of me diving. We had some fairly direct but not pointed discussions about buoyancy control and I got the distinct impression the guy thought he was doing a good job even after I mentioned he was on the bottom a few times.
So, how do you educate people about their skill level and ways to improve without sounding like a dick, especially as a newbie?