I want to be sure I understand what you are doing when you assembler your rig:Are you frequently changing cylinder sizes? The bands really should not need any 'ratcheting' between dives, unless you are changing the sizing. Size them as snug as you can, so that you have to 'work' them a bit to get them to slide down on the cylinder. Position the plate properly on the cylinder. The plate should stay in place, wherever you position it, if the bands are already snug enough - without any pads.
You might then close one of the bands - it may not be Loc-Tite snug, but it should be snug enough to easily hold the plate in place. If, for whatever reason, you need some 'ratcheting', then 'ratchet the other band, and close it. Then, go back and do the same for the first band. I admit, I am having some trouble understanding why this is needed on a regular basis. And, you are assembling the unit without weights in the pocket, right? If you have the weights in, it may make it more difficult to hold the plate in place, particularly if the bands aren't already snug before you slide them down over the cylinder. Well, since you mentioned it: Yes, you probably are. Most of us go through that phase as a newer diver. I certainly did. It is part of the learning process.Yes, it will. That is probably a much better solution than rigging a strap.
So far, I have only used 7.25" tanks. I normally put the rig on the first tank, the put the weights in the pockets. But, for the switch to the second tank, I normally leave the weights in the pockets.
I would wet the straps before first install, if I could. But, so far, that would have meant trying to hang over the side of a moving boat and reach the water with my rig. I have elected not to attempt that. So, most of the time, I'm putting the straps on the first tank dry.
I'm probably also guilty to trying to get them tighter than they need to be.
Also, I have often actually loosened the bands some beyond just opening the cam all the way, in order to get the rig to come up and off the first tank. So, putting the rig on the second tank usually requires more than just slipping it down and closing the cams.
I have been doing things more or less as tbone described - lock the first one, then get the second one tight and lock it, then go back and tighten up the first. But, somehow, it seems to always take me doing and re-doing it a few times because the plate gets twisted and I have to undo/redo to straighten it out, and then it will often end up with the valve not exactly perpendicular to the back plate, and in the process of fixing that the plate slips down a little bit when I loosen the tank bands and turn things.
I always get there, and it doesn't take THAT long. It just seems like it would be quicker and easier if a tank height strap were eliminating one variable in the process.
And I would still like to know what it is about the tank height strap that bothers people enough to cut them off a rig that comes with one. Is it just an image thing? Someone wants to look like a pro, so they remove a part that is "for newbs"?