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My daughter (14) and I (63) contacted a tropical dive shop with which I have been doing business for several years. I told the owner that we wanted some new and outstanding dive sites. Could he also build an AOW course around such sites?
I have been diving about 30 years, my daughter 5.
We started with the buoyancy dive, which was no challenge. However, my daughter had a problem with a self-inflating BCD, which kept propelling her to the surface. The instructor was ahead of us and rarely looked back. I misdiagnosed the situation, thinking my daughter's mask was flooded. Eventually, I managed to call the instructor's attention to my daughter and she disconnected the BCD inflation hose.
During the surface interval, the instructor said we could "squeeze in" a fish identification/digital photography dive. The shallow site was murky, with few fish or photo opportunities. After 30 minutes and our tanks more than half full, the instructor signalled us to exit the water, later explaining that the boat had a schedule.
Our third dive was an almost completely barren area, although we did spot several reef sharks. Still, it was supposed to be a drift dive, yet there was no current. I felt the instructor had been going through the motions of teaching a course and the dive shop had misrepresented the quality of the sites. In fact, I had dived at them two years earlier and they were filled with life then. Intensive tourism had, it seemed, killed almost all the coral and many of the previously diverse sea creatures.
The second day, I asked the shop manager, very nicely, if we could dive some different and better sites. I said nothing about the instructor's performance. The manager said we would be going to a whole different set of "truly fantastic sites."
On the boat, the instructor said we were going to the same sites as the day before. She was walking unsteadily, talking nonsensically and I smelled alcohol on her breath. She had forgotten our dive computers, which were standard equipment for the AOW "deep dive." She recited a long list of crucial equipment she had forgotten in the past, such as a weight belt and wet suit (in 16 C water), but managed to shepherd her charges anyway. She seemed to be making light of her oversight. The instructor then told my daughter how she had been out drinking the night before.
The instructor next volunteered that we could save on air by "holding our breath," while diving. I was amazed at this suggestion and asked her for clarification. She said holding your breath briefly, while swimming at a constant level, is acceptable. Of course, taking a deep breath and holding it will affect your buoyancy and cause you to rise. At this point you certainly wouldn't want to be holding your breath. But I decided not to get into an argument with her.
We were far from shore when I opted, based on the circumstances, not to proceed with the dive. I didn't give a reason. I said, My daughter and I will not dive at this time; I'm sorry to inconvenience you.
The instructor, who is paid by the dive shop, not me, proceeded to tell me that she was a single mother and that I was destroying her life. She nagged me for the six hours we were on the boat.
When we returned to port, I went to see the dive shop's owner and told him there was a problem and would come back to discuss it later. He pressed me for a reason and I said, very quietly, that I believed the instructor was drunk and had decided not to dive with her. He terminated the conversation.
The following day, the instructor appeared in the village, where we were speaking with friends at another dive shop. She began threatening us and the dive shop crew. She told me she had local friends who would "get" me.
I complained to her shop's owner, who said her behaviour was unacceptable. But in an email a few hours later, he said the incident had never happened.
I have been diving about 30 years, my daughter 5.
We started with the buoyancy dive, which was no challenge. However, my daughter had a problem with a self-inflating BCD, which kept propelling her to the surface. The instructor was ahead of us and rarely looked back. I misdiagnosed the situation, thinking my daughter's mask was flooded. Eventually, I managed to call the instructor's attention to my daughter and she disconnected the BCD inflation hose.
During the surface interval, the instructor said we could "squeeze in" a fish identification/digital photography dive. The shallow site was murky, with few fish or photo opportunities. After 30 minutes and our tanks more than half full, the instructor signalled us to exit the water, later explaining that the boat had a schedule.
Our third dive was an almost completely barren area, although we did spot several reef sharks. Still, it was supposed to be a drift dive, yet there was no current. I felt the instructor had been going through the motions of teaching a course and the dive shop had misrepresented the quality of the sites. In fact, I had dived at them two years earlier and they were filled with life then. Intensive tourism had, it seemed, killed almost all the coral and many of the previously diverse sea creatures.
The second day, I asked the shop manager, very nicely, if we could dive some different and better sites. I said nothing about the instructor's performance. The manager said we would be going to a whole different set of "truly fantastic sites."
On the boat, the instructor said we were going to the same sites as the day before. She was walking unsteadily, talking nonsensically and I smelled alcohol on her breath. She had forgotten our dive computers, which were standard equipment for the AOW "deep dive." She recited a long list of crucial equipment she had forgotten in the past, such as a weight belt and wet suit (in 16 C water), but managed to shepherd her charges anyway. She seemed to be making light of her oversight. The instructor then told my daughter how she had been out drinking the night before.
The instructor next volunteered that we could save on air by "holding our breath," while diving. I was amazed at this suggestion and asked her for clarification. She said holding your breath briefly, while swimming at a constant level, is acceptable. Of course, taking a deep breath and holding it will affect your buoyancy and cause you to rise. At this point you certainly wouldn't want to be holding your breath. But I decided not to get into an argument with her.
We were far from shore when I opted, based on the circumstances, not to proceed with the dive. I didn't give a reason. I said, My daughter and I will not dive at this time; I'm sorry to inconvenience you.
The instructor, who is paid by the dive shop, not me, proceeded to tell me that she was a single mother and that I was destroying her life. She nagged me for the six hours we were on the boat.
When we returned to port, I went to see the dive shop's owner and told him there was a problem and would come back to discuss it later. He pressed me for a reason and I said, very quietly, that I believed the instructor was drunk and had decided not to dive with her. He terminated the conversation.
The following day, the instructor appeared in the village, where we were speaking with friends at another dive shop. She began threatening us and the dive shop crew. She told me she had local friends who would "get" me.
I complained to her shop's owner, who said her behaviour was unacceptable. But in an email a few hours later, he said the incident had never happened.