You sound like an
EXTREMELY entitled and petty individual, more so than most "entitled millennials." Words cannot even properly convey all my thoughts on this matter but I'll try..
I have no idea what type of diver you are or caliber / quality of your skills as an instructor but let me just state that for me it's often dive professionals that cause the most issues or headaches on the charters. I really do not like to paint with such a broad brush and always try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt but it's unfortunately often times true.
I'm not saying this is the case here but I'm sure in your "18 years as recreational diver" and 6 years as a "real instructor" you've perhaps run into the same thing. I expect your group would have been quite the handful. Either the dive site was not going to be interesting or engaging enough for you or it would be too shallow, or the dive would have been too short or not advanced enough. Oh god..I can think of so many other scenarios here.
Often times dive professionals don't want to listen to briefings because they are "instructors" and know better. They miss crucial bits of information because they are "professionals." This could be something relatively simple like safety briefings or navigation hazards at dive site, not bothering to hold onto the mooring line on ascent / decent.
Often times dive professional feel rules do not apply to them. They want to be special snowflakes because they are dive professionals,
real instructors. They expect rules to be bent for them and special exceptions and accommodations to be made. The often do not want to stay with the group or if they do their own thing they surface far away from the boat or do free ascents on wrecks with heavy boat traffic.
From bombing down a wall to 200ft on a single tank, to trying to break their own personal depth record or riding turtles. I've seen it more times now than I can count.
I've had instructors actively criticize other dive professionals and give blatantly wrong and incorrect information that conflicts the information already given to students.
I've had instructors constantly badmouth other dive shops, dive resorts and dive charters because things were not be run "their way" or they did not get what they want.
EXACTLY what you're trying to do to the original poster. This looks terrible to new divers who are just getting started in the this hobby and sets a pretty bad example in the industry.
But you're
"real instructors, no entitled millennials." It's perfectly okay. If I were praying man (I'm not..) then I would not wish your patronage upon any dive shop, operator or dive resort.
To the original poster
@Indah. You're 100% in the right here. If I ever make it back to Indonesia then I'll be sure to look your resort up. I don't require a special-snowflake discount or any special accommodations either, I just want to go diving.