I spend a great deal of time helping divers with proper weighting. They come to me after they have gotten dissatisfied with other instruction.
One of the things to remember is that going to a plate and wing may not be a straight drop 6 lbs off the belt or anywhere else. What BC is she using now? There is a good chance that it has some inherent buoyancy that will not be present with a BPW. If she uses 10-12 lbs now she may only need 4 or so going to a 5lb plate.
If this is the case, you may be able to put two small accessory weight pockets like you have on the waist strap. Those could be easily ditched if necessary if you mount them upside down. Since they'd only hold 2-3 lbs each, properly weighted, she'd only need to drop the weight from one.
Once you put the steel plate over her lungs I don't think that you are going to need anything on the cam bands unless, to put this delicately, she is more buoyant up top and would need more weight higher up. What I have found people to not understand is that in an emergency, with an exposure suit of 3 mil or more, most people will float. Worst case scenario is you jettison the whole rig.
If your ditchable weight is on it, they won't sink. That said, I am also a huge proponent of the MAKO rubber free diving belt. I have three of them and I use weight pockets on them. The pockets remove any discomfort caused by traditional hard weights by putting them on the outside. I love that in an emergency, dropping weights on a MAKO belt, you are not out anything because they will replace the belt and lead. All they ask is an honest written account of what happened.
I am known for not recommending people spend more money when they don't need to. MAKO is an exception to that in that I will recommend that people choose their belt over a conventional $10 web belt in the strongest possible terms.