Anyways, all this to say: is it selfish to insist on my style of diving and hope that maybe, like us, the other diver will learn from it?
Hi Dianna,
Short and simple answer: No.
As others have opined and the Chairman has written in declarative terms, slow is more fun.
It's my opinion that there are more situations where slow diving is the BEST diving than the other way around. You just can't see as much during these forced marches. I hate them. I just slow down.
Pete uses the term "forced marches." I have used the term "Olympic level swim race."
My best dives have been right under the boat. My best dives have been splashing, going down to 1.4 ata (30-34% Eanx), and then
slowly zig-zagging up the reef and straight back to the boat. Nice and slow. My flashlight is burning holes in the reef the entire dive. One-way buoy to buoy diving is fun (its a term with many deviations--don't go ballistic on me)
I have told DMs that we enjoy a slow pace. We try to dive with a group of photographers. They usually take their time and don't worry about the group. We hang with them and let the DM slow everyone else down (if they have to).
I have dived with Pete, his words are true, no bull.
Try asking the DM to put you in a group of photographers, as you like a slower pace and enjoy searching smaller areas more thoroughly.
A few times, the dive op allowed me to dive solo under the boat, the group did their own thing. Some of the best dives I have had.
I believe the dive industry needs to change the vacation diving model. It needs to stop focusing on the lowest common denominator, and focus on the experienced diver. But that is another thread.
Have you met
@cardzard and
@ROXANNE? They have a crystal ball for matching divers on their trips--it works well.
Good luck,
markm