@Jonn I'm not sure I understand what you mean by you " I routinely exceed my computers decompression limits, and I do not calculate my remaining air". You say you hit DECO, but does that mean the warning or have you gone past the warning?
When I hit DECO it's time to come up a little bit but it's not an emergency in itself; a minute or two is not a huge deal. I certainly don't ignore that warning, I shouldn't ever be surprised by it, but if I have the gas it's a 'soft limit'. There's no significant difference being a minute away from the limit and being a minute beyond of it, it's not like the scuba gods will smite me on the threshold as I'm lining up that perfect photo. At the shallower depth the deco obligation goes away, then comes back again, and I come up a few more feet. If I encountered some emergency that used a lot of time and a lot of gas at depth I might be in trouble, but surfacing promptly should always be an option with the sort of diving I do.
The point of this is to push the dive right to the very limits of the computers allowable 'decompression stress' (a concept I only vaguely understand), but that's the point: the conservatism (or lack thereof) is computed by the computer. If I wanted to be safer (or less safe) it's more efficient to move the gradient factors up and down than make an additional rule "I'll keep 10 minutes away from the deco limit so I never reach it". Sure it's a (literally) black box I don't understand and am trusting my health to, but then who here can compile their own tables from first principles either?