ArcticDiver
Contributor
Thanks for an intelligent thread Peter.
I agree each of us owes our family a good deal. After all, once a person has a family, whether that is two of you or a dozen, the entire family has to be considered in everything. Frankly, I'm a bit sad when I read that some people limit their responsibility to just money. Each of us owes our family far more than mere money.
When I was married we adopted the motto: "Love, Honor, Negotiate". So, we each get to do some high risk things. Others after negotiation we do not. In each case, money doesn't enter the equation at all. It is the potential loss of a member of the family unit and the perceived risk that drives the decision. For example: I get to dive and make my solo backcountry trips but not skydive.
Of course, everyone, regardless of what they do should have their stuff together so injury or death doesn't create a further crisis. Wills, Trusts, Life Insurance, all that should be part of everyone's life, not just divers.
I agree each of us owes our family a good deal. After all, once a person has a family, whether that is two of you or a dozen, the entire family has to be considered in everything. Frankly, I'm a bit sad when I read that some people limit their responsibility to just money. Each of us owes our family far more than mere money.
When I was married we adopted the motto: "Love, Honor, Negotiate". So, we each get to do some high risk things. Others after negotiation we do not. In each case, money doesn't enter the equation at all. It is the potential loss of a member of the family unit and the perceived risk that drives the decision. For example: I get to dive and make my solo backcountry trips but not skydive.
Of course, everyone, regardless of what they do should have their stuff together so injury or death doesn't create a further crisis. Wills, Trusts, Life Insurance, all that should be part of everyone's life, not just divers.