The rubber washer is normal as long as it is smooth ie nothing glued/welded on top of it. There should be a similar one on the outside as well.Yep there is like a rubber washer glued to the bladder from the inside. Definitely some small plastic pieces inside the bcd bladder not much else from the dump valves cracking up.
But from you previous attached photo there are something still attached around the opening.
Take a look at the video.
DGX Bladder Flange Assembly
Question is would it fit the hole in your bc. If the hole is wider than 1.75" then it is useless.
You also need the respective cap and elbow.
You need to remove all the broken pieces from the inside rubber washer FIRST.