Nick Steele
Contributor
I've heard of people that share their life with non-divers but I don't quite see it. The ones I know end up bartering or hiding their diving trips or purchases.
I couldn't, there's enough give and take with life in general, not sure a non- diver could understand the financial allocation for diving. Probably worse the time allocation, being unavailable on weekends if the seas are less than 3 feet, or using 75 to 100% of any free time for diving or diving related activities.
I share life with a non diving spouse and for now I try to dive on my days off during the week. And weekends are for us. But even still some weekends she tells me I should go diving. She knows it’s very relaxing and keeps me happy (not that she doesn’t) and sometimes will snorkel with me but not often. Plus she bought/helped alleviate some of my buying so she knows how much money I spend diving and everything else is paid for so it’s all good.
Not only does she put up with diving/snorkeling she also deals with my fishing which can sometimes cost more.