Steve,
Thanks for reviving this post, and offering your update. I too had not seen this previously. It's vital not to ever forget.
I know of no one personally that came close to your experiences, but my family benefited from the open hearts and arms of the community in Hallifax, Nova Scotia. My Mother, her good friend, my sister and b-in-law were flying back from Europe on the morning of the 11th. As I knew they had a stop-over in Boston, for a few scary hours I fretted that their plane may have been involved. Blessedly, their only hardship was a few poor nights sleep in an auditorium in Canada. The people of Hallifax did everything in their power to make their unexpected guests comfortable, well-fed and entertained.
My thoughts are with you, all the other survivors, and grieving family and friends of those lost.
Scuba-sass