CptTightPants21
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Yeah, but they are also children, and brain development doesn't stop at age 12. There is a reason why 16 year olds can't drink, drive, vote or join the service. There's a lot of range between toddler and tech instructor.
What would you do if you were diving with your 16 year old, you saw that they were past their turn pressure, you thumbed the dive and they waved you off (or penetrated a wreck)..? You would ascend without him?
We are getting off topic with generalities. OP needs to give some more detail on the situation and the progression of events before I can pass judgment.
16 year olds do drink, they can drive, I know 60 year olds that probably shouldn't be allowed to vote, and they fought in every war for the first 200 years of this country's history. A 16 year old is not a child.
I agree with Dirty-Dog's sentiments, although again, more specifics are needed before I can say what I would have done.