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JeffG:It was Popeye that said/did that
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JeffG:It was Popeye that said/did that
What a great post I would dive with you any daykjunheart:Now I can understand that it is up to the captain but if smoking is allowed on the boat & not specified where, then it is a matter of respect and courtesy for the people around you - both for smokers and non-smokers. To the non-smokers, no BS...sometimes smokers just forget that not everyone smokes and all you have to do is ask politely for them to relocate, etc. And yes, there are those people who are jerks about it but then they obviously are the type that will be jerks about anything so you will never win with them.
This past weekend we were on a boat that allowed smoking. A guy lit up "inside" (http://www.islandhopper.com/dive.html) the cabin. Another diver got insulted, cornered herself up in the "cabin" and acted indignant/pissed and kept throwing the smoker dirty looks. At first I didn't know what was wrong with her - she looked so miserable - so I asked if everything was o.k. She then told me she was upset with the guy smoking. While I understood her being upset and thinking it was inconsiderate to be smoking in the cabin, all she had to do was say something. The moment the guy heard she was offended by the smoke he immediately went to an area where he would be downwind of her. IMHO she wasted a lot of energy being indignant when all she had to do was ask.
Later during our SI, there was a crowd of divers at the stern hanging out and talking. He lit up where he was sitting which was directly upwind of us. I was the only one who was getting queasy from the smell (clove like cigarettes). So I asked him if I could switch places with him...he thanked me and accepted my offer. He said he was trying to not offend, but at the same time he was afraid of offending someone by asking if he could sit in the corner to smoke. Kind of a catch-22 for him.
I am currently a non-smoker and love it. Notice that I say currently...just like someone who has quit drinking - it is a day to day thing. There are times that I would love to have one but since I had my baby, it makes me green. But when I was smoking, I always asked the people around me if they minded if I smoked. If smoking is allowed on a boat, then others should realize that the smoker has probably taken the time to find a boat to accomodate his/her habit. I think that if you are a non-smoker and know you won't bend about having people smoke around you, then I believe it is your responsibility to find a boat that accomodates their preferences.
Just my thoughts :10:
Geez, you don't see that sort of behaviour much around these parts.MikeFerrara:A couple weeks when ago my wife an I took my daughter back to school after her spring break. We stopped in a super walmart to get her some stuff and I waited in the truck because I can't stand to be in a crowd any place for any reason and this colledge town store was packed.
Any way...as I sat there I watched dozens and dozens of people leave the store, put their stuff in their car and drive off. Most folks were well dressed and were driving expensive cars. All but one or two people left their shopping carts just stand where they were even though the parking lot was on a hill and it was a windy day. I'll bet that while I sat there I saw or heard at least a dozen cars get hit and I sprinted accross the lot to stop a couple of rolling carts about to hit cars. I would have stopped them all but there were just too many.
That day I witnessed a large percentage of that local shopping population knowingly and intentionally do something that would cause real damage to their fellow shoppers property rather than walk a short distance to put the cart where it belonged or even just lay the thing down so it couldn't roll.