CuriousMe
Guest
Not to jump on the non-smoking bandwagon....but, as a non-smoker....when I'm getting onto a dive boat, I don't think it's ever occurred to me that the stern is where someone who smokes would go and smoke. It's not quite the same as sitting in an obviously declared smoking section in a restaurant and not expecting smoke. I consider how much space I'll have for my buddy and my gear, if the space is in the sun and if I want to be that day, if I have my camera with me....how close the bench is to the table, etc.....not whether I'll be in someone's way who wants to smoke on a dive boat.
I've been on just a few boats with smokers....many of them are not as considerate as you explain yourself to be. Just two weeks ago, I was sitting midship, I had just strapped into my gear and was waiting to get in the water (since I was midship, I was waiting for those further astern to hop in first)....a rider on the boat (spouse of one of the divers who was just forward of me) lit up and was puffing away. For me, second hand smoke is not a PC issue...it's a health issue....I'm very allergic to cigarette smoke (going to a smoky bar could and has made me sick for over a week)....I certainly didn't want a lungful before diving. I politely asked her to step to the other side of the boat, since I was sitting in my gear....I couldn't really move to avoid her...she rolled her eyes, and made a smart remark to her buddy and then finally moved.
Just to show the flipside of being picked on for smoking....I'm tired of being told by smokers that I'm just being "PC", that I'm just being overly sensitive, that I'm making a big deal out of nothing, that I couldn't possibly be bothered by their cigarette since we're outside....trust me, getting anyone to quit smoking isn't a crusade of mine....I'm not looking for the confrontation, I do whatever I can to avoid infringing on your right to smoke....mostly because I'm not looking to hear all of the above back at me. Y'all are grown people...you can do whatever you want to yourself....it's your choice.
If I come to you....it's because I can smell your smoke and it will make me sick (you not believing that it will make me sick, will actually not stop it from making me sick). If we're talking about rights....I think my right protect myself from being very ill supercedes your right to smoke.
Sorry.....just needed to get that off my chest
Peace,
Cathie
I've been on just a few boats with smokers....many of them are not as considerate as you explain yourself to be. Just two weeks ago, I was sitting midship, I had just strapped into my gear and was waiting to get in the water (since I was midship, I was waiting for those further astern to hop in first)....a rider on the boat (spouse of one of the divers who was just forward of me) lit up and was puffing away. For me, second hand smoke is not a PC issue...it's a health issue....I'm very allergic to cigarette smoke (going to a smoky bar could and has made me sick for over a week)....I certainly didn't want a lungful before diving. I politely asked her to step to the other side of the boat, since I was sitting in my gear....I couldn't really move to avoid her...she rolled her eyes, and made a smart remark to her buddy and then finally moved.
Just to show the flipside of being picked on for smoking....I'm tired of being told by smokers that I'm just being "PC", that I'm just being overly sensitive, that I'm making a big deal out of nothing, that I couldn't possibly be bothered by their cigarette since we're outside....trust me, getting anyone to quit smoking isn't a crusade of mine....I'm not looking for the confrontation, I do whatever I can to avoid infringing on your right to smoke....mostly because I'm not looking to hear all of the above back at me. Y'all are grown people...you can do whatever you want to yourself....it's your choice.
If I come to you....it's because I can smell your smoke and it will make me sick (you not believing that it will make me sick, will actually not stop it from making me sick). If we're talking about rights....I think my right protect myself from being very ill supercedes your right to smoke.
Sorry.....just needed to get that off my chest
Peace,
Cathie