Brian,
Welcome to SCUBA! I hope you find it as enjoyable as I do. As far as this board goes and the opinions you may read on what to buy and what is best, I say find what works for YOU!
Consider the type of diving you will be doing and include what you plan on doing on down the road. Also, evaluate equipment as it pertains to YOU. Does it fit comfortably on YOU? Is it easy for YOU to adjust/set up/control/utilize/etc? Does it meet the requirements for the type of diving YOU plan to do(cold water, fresh or salt,tropical)? Does it have the versatility to accommidate your long-term dive plans? Find the gear that is right for YOU!
Rarely will you see a post on this board from a member who has a piece of equipment that they don't like. To admit that is to admit they made a bad purchase(ie:decision). I could list the equipment I use and tell you how and why I think it is the best, but that would be misleading because it's the gear that works for ME. You need to ask questions, visit different LDS's, and find the setup that best suits YOU! Take the opinions on this board for what they are. Opinions. You are taught to plan your dive and dive your plan. Treat your gear purchase the same way, and I think you will be satisfied with the outcome.
Dive Safe! Dive Often!
Jetwrench