I eventaully want to go Full Cave and Trimix/Deep, but I'm not sure about equipment. Because of the cost, I don't want to rush and buy the wrong setup. ... I'm mainly focused on the main equipment (backplate, regs, and computer). I think I've narrowed it down, but I'm open to other suggestions. Backplate
A lot of folks recommend a simple one piece hog harness, and they are great. I personally find them a bit more difficult to get out of with a drysuit, and have opted for an OMS deluxe harness - yes, with plastic quick releases on the shoulder straps (oh, the shame of it all) - for drysuit diving. As others have said, stick with a backplate and wing, rather than a soft harness like the Transpac (which is a great piece of gear, just not as recommendable for the tec rig as a straight BP). I have a couple of OMS BPs, a Dive Rite and a home made and there is minimal difference (except AL vs Steel). I have an Explorer 55 and like it a lot, but Oxycheq makes good wings, as does Dive Rite, and Deep Sea Supply is very good. You may buy a wing and later sell it - not 'upgrade', just decide to try something different, so don't close the door on that possible eventuality.
toddr:
You've gotten lots of comments on your reg choices. They are not bad, however, just not what others may dive. I like Apeks myself, but also have a set of Zeagle 50Ds that I like for tec as well. Lots of good choices out there. If you go Apeks, you might think about the XTX 200 as well.
toddr:
The Nitek X promises a lot but still hasn't appeared. I have a Nitek He which I really like, it is just hard to read U/W. I agree with the several posters who say wait on the computer. A good bottom timer (and back-up) is more important at the start. I also dive a Suunto Vytec which gives me plenty of support for non-trimix deco diving. The bottom line - there are lots of simple options, and I probably wouldn't jump into the expense of a Nitek X (or VR3, or Cochran) right away.
Lastly, I'm thinking of going with Steel 100 HP and 19cu for Argon. Any thoughts with this going into caves? I'm about 6'0 230.
Steel 100s are great tanks. But, I agree with the observations that you will probably want as much gas as possible, and HP 130s are an attractive option. The 19 for Argon / air seems a bit much. I would suggest a 6, or maybe a 13.