I wrote Jesca and she confirmed it. I can't believe it happened a month ago. I am really angry some friends down there didn't see it coming and/or didn't help her with it.
the death of Marike Jasper
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H2Andy
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i am sorry, crispos. this is obviously very upsetting to you.
guilt at the suicide of a friend or relative is enormous for survivors. sadly, there really
isn't anything someone can do to stop someone else from dying. anger is also a common reaction. you might even be angry at her for killing herself, and displacing it
onto those left behind.
not to preach or anything, but would you consider talking to a professional about
your loss? it's obvious that it has affected you greatly, which is quite normal and to be expected.
(i decided not to PM this to you, mostly so maybe someone else can read it as well)
guilt at the suicide of a friend or relative is enormous for survivors. sadly, there really
isn't anything someone can do to stop someone else from dying. anger is also a common reaction. you might even be angry at her for killing herself, and displacing it
onto those left behind.
not to preach or anything, but would you consider talking to a professional about
your loss? it's obvious that it has affected you greatly, which is quite normal and to be expected.
(i decided not to PM this to you, mostly so maybe someone else can read it as well)
yes andy, I am very upset and crying my eyes out. I was supposed to go see her but I was busy in coz and didn't get around to it. **** it.
H2Andy
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i am so sorry. please talk to someone?
JamesK
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Sorry for bringing up an old, very old, thread.
I can't beleive it has been 8 years now. It seems to me like it was just a short while ago we were sitting in your house talking about what to do for dinner and where to dive tomorrow. Or we were sitting in Atlanta eating dinner ready to head to the NACD Seminar and you were showing off your maps. You are still missed Marike.
That is me in my younger days on the right. This was Sept of 2002. Almost ten years ago.
I can't beleive it has been 8 years now. It seems to me like it was just a short while ago we were sitting in your house talking about what to do for dinner and where to dive tomorrow. Or we were sitting in Atlanta eating dinner ready to head to the NACD Seminar and you were showing off your maps. You are still missed Marike.
That is me in my younger days on the right. This was Sept of 2002. Almost ten years ago.
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