Push your A142 spool all the way into the Cobra end. If it sticks out more than about 5/16", you're fine. The seal happens anywhere along the bores of both the hose fitting and the computer fitting. The key is not having a bore so long in either component that the spool buries itself in that part, and the o-ring on the other end pops out of its bore (land). It is the oring that makes the seal, as you know, and you just have to make sure that both o-rings stay in contact with their respective lands.
That's the reason for the other design. Although it's short, the flange keeps the spool centered, so both o-rings stay in contact with their lands.
The problem with the flanged spool is that not all connections have enough space for the flange itself. In those connections, both metal parts butt right against each other.