Not a fan of this practice personally. However comma (yes, spelled out for dramatic effect) a DM doing this to get someone back to somewhere that will avoid a difficult surface swim or egress is not a problem IMO. For instance, one of my favorite dive sites here is called "The Slot". Dun dun dunnnnnn! Anyway, at "The Slot" DUN DUN DUNNNNN! the entry and exit is in a shallow pool. To get to that pool you walk out in knee deep water, then drop off a ledge to this chest high pool. Going out from there requires going between a 4 foot wide "slot" in the rocks that goes from 4 feet deep down to 20 feet deep on a slope. The surf pounds through there horribly. It usually shoots you out like a rocket, and you have to pull yourself in. Trying to surface swim through this coming back would be brutal. So sharing air on the way in would be much easier. Especially on a long hose. That is why I preach the long hose here. Although every thinks I am nutty. Well, Ok, I am nutty.
For a DM to do this simply to extend the bottom time of customers I think is a big mistake. As others have said, it takes him away from his real duties. Someone doing this on a easy peesy cheesy dive, well, that is debatable. A team that dive together a lot, I am slightly tolerant of, although I discourage it. New divers getting in to this practice = no good.