We want a pool by the beach, a beautiful ocean view, peaceful setting and a house reef that is good and easy to snorkel.
Some links that may be of use:
My Research Notes for Bonaire -
My Research Note For Bonaire
8 Day Trip Report: Sand Dollar, Dive Friends
2022
Trip Report Bonaire Trip Report - V.I.P. Divers/Aqua Viva Suites
If by 'beach' you mean a shoreline with a gradual sandy slope into the ocean suitable for wading out...that's going to be a problem. Sand Dollar Condo.s has a small beach area beside their pier; Den Lamen does also, though a bit rougher looking to me.
In fairness, gradual sandy sloping beaches often aren't great for snorkeling. You need to underwater structure for that. A pier can liven things up a good deal.
Be mindful that an oceanfront resort doesn't automatically = an oceanview room for you. A nice view of the ocean from the grounds should be no problem; if it's a big deal to sit outside your room on a patio at stare at the ocean, you'll have to be more discriminating.
I haven't stayed at Belmar. I liked Buddy Dive Resort already, but I didn't have ocean views from the room.
Will your daughter dive? I ask because out of 10 visits to Bonaire, now that I think of it, I don't recall haven't gotten into any of the resort pools. Compared to the ocean, a swimming pool is like a featureless sterile box, and the ocean is right nearby. Plus after a few dives, the desire to be in a pool diminishes. Different strokes, different folks.