I am going to again point to this thread I started last year:
http://www.scubaboard.com/forums/ne...ering-diving/283566-who-responsible-what.html
I see many have similar attitudes about diving with a buddy independently after certification. What does dismay me and actually anger me is that there are still posts like this. It is just more evidence that although there are those of us who teach and try to instill in our students that they are responsible for themselves, many still do not.
That they will issue a card to someone who is not comfortable in the water and has doubts regarding their abilities is a disgrace. One thing that I also try to instill is good judgment. Hiring a DM when in a new place because you want one is very different than needing one. If you really need one and the conditions are equal to or better than that in which you trained I think you need to find a more benign site or just sit by the pool. There is absolutely no reason a certified PROPERLY trained diver should require a DM to lead them around, hold their hand, etc.
I am fortunate that as an instructor I don't have to follow a DM around and would never dive with an op that required me to. But then again I felt this way before even starting my DM training. I have little tolerance for UW tourists and do not train people to be such. That there are places that do is also sad and a clear indication of the greed that runs many such places as opposed to wanting to create safe, skilled, competent, and confident divers.
Look at your classes, where were they lacking? How long did they last? 3 days. That is not a dive course. That is a way by an unscrupulous individual or entity to separate you from your money. Would you be satisfied with a driving course taught the same way? Here ya go. it;s ok if traffic, freeways, and someone passing you scares the crap out of you. You can now take 2 tons of steel that is quite capable of killing you and many other people out any time you want.
I am almost to the point of saying you know what? You got what you wanted, quick, easy, and of little educational value. So go ahead, just don't make me have to fill out an accident report or look at your corpse on the way back in. I will continue to create divers who I'd allow my son, daughter, or any other loved one to dive with right out of OW class without me or any other pro in the water.