CindyMac
Contributor
From the perspective of the reluctant spouse/significant others:
My husband certified in 2005 after a resort Discover Scuba class. I was content to be a beach bum. No interest whatsoever. Over the years, we took vacations during which he dove, I did something else. Usually that meant being with my youngest daughter (who would love to dive, but her congenital heart defect and many stents prevent).
We went on cruise this March and all the ports were dive destinations. He did drop hints over he years about how nice it would be if I learned. He usually got a very dirt look. Not this time. I figured I could give it a shot, since the Discover Scuba was in Grand Cayman. Silly guy did not book his excursion early (as I did) and wasn't able to dive on Grand Cayman.
I LOVED IT!!! There was that awful moment, though, that I took a breath through my nose! The instructor/guide that was near me got me through it, using hand signals and lots of patience! Felt like a doofus later, but, hey it was okay. Could not wait to get home and get certified!
I must warn all you guys - there is one thing my husband forgot about - with a new addiction there is a price. And boy, am I pricey!!!! He had totally overlooked the fact that I'd need equipment, which meant spending some money (makes him sweat more than a school of sharks LOL). He has decided that my little bitty spree on Roatan (buying jewelry) was less expensive, but he is thrilled that I do enjoy diving. We are bound for Bonaire in November (leaving the day of the biggest game in college football - my beloved AU Tigers take on those tacky Tuscaloosa Elephants)! Our first dive vacation!!!!!
Now, I am much more comfortable in the water. Was with my family in Alabama and played in my brother's pool. My nephew thinks I'm awesome with all the underwater stuff and my youngest thinks I've lost my mind.
Best advice is don't be pushy. If she/he doesn't want to dive, drop it. They may come to it in their own time.
My husband certified in 2005 after a resort Discover Scuba class. I was content to be a beach bum. No interest whatsoever. Over the years, we took vacations during which he dove, I did something else. Usually that meant being with my youngest daughter (who would love to dive, but her congenital heart defect and many stents prevent).
We went on cruise this March and all the ports were dive destinations. He did drop hints over he years about how nice it would be if I learned. He usually got a very dirt look. Not this time. I figured I could give it a shot, since the Discover Scuba was in Grand Cayman. Silly guy did not book his excursion early (as I did) and wasn't able to dive on Grand Cayman.
I LOVED IT!!! There was that awful moment, though, that I took a breath through my nose! The instructor/guide that was near me got me through it, using hand signals and lots of patience! Felt like a doofus later, but, hey it was okay. Could not wait to get home and get certified!
I must warn all you guys - there is one thing my husband forgot about - with a new addiction there is a price. And boy, am I pricey!!!! He had totally overlooked the fact that I'd need equipment, which meant spending some money (makes him sweat more than a school of sharks LOL). He has decided that my little bitty spree on Roatan (buying jewelry) was less expensive, but he is thrilled that I do enjoy diving. We are bound for Bonaire in November (leaving the day of the biggest game in college football - my beloved AU Tigers take on those tacky Tuscaloosa Elephants)! Our first dive vacation!!!!!
Now, I am much more comfortable in the water. Was with my family in Alabama and played in my brother's pool. My nephew thinks I'm awesome with all the underwater stuff and my youngest thinks I've lost my mind.
Best advice is don't be pushy. If she/he doesn't want to dive, drop it. They may come to it in their own time.