Funny...as I was reading your first post, I was thinking, "gee...this sounds familiar..." Then I realized why. Almost identical to mine!
I am a Chicago native, living in Arlington Heights now. I was certified when I was in high school, back in 1987. Dove a few times locally, then never had time or money, and gave it up for over a decade!
I got engaged towards the end of 2000, and when we were making plans for the wedding and honeymoon, diving came up. I informed my then fiance that if she wants to dive, we are getting her certified. No resort courses for her!
I did her OW as my refresher. Our honeymoon was in November 2001, 5 days on Aruba, 5 days on Curacao. In Aruba, we hired a dive guide and did a single dive. My wife had some issues with how our OW was run, and translated that to not being sure if she likes diving. Needless to say, she loved that dive! We called our Curacao resort before leaving, and changed our reservation from having a few days of dive package to an Advanced Open Water course. We haven't looked back since!
To make a long story short, we completed our Master Scuba Diver certs in Belize June of this year. She has no real intent to go pro or tec, I am giving both strong consideration now.
Feel free to drop me a PM if you and your fiance are interested in diving sometime. I will probably be looking for dive buddies over the next year or so.
Also, I would recommend joining a local dive club. I am a member of the Chicago Aquanauts (
www.casascuba.org).
Most importantly, don't be a stranger! We all want to hear about how your diving goes