As an opposing thought, since you are diving HP 100's already, have you considered a HP130? My experience is that they dive just like a 100 as far as trim goes, the two are quite indistinguishable underwater (except for the weight swing from gas). IIRC they're only 10 lbs heavier above water which hasn't been a big difference for me (or my petite wife, either).
If you're doing square-profile wreck dives, where you're NDL limited, it certainly is easy to get into too big of a cylinder. Shore diving is a different story and where a bigger cylinder shines.
I'd crunch the numbers for your working bottom gas needs, and, rock bottom. I wouldn't be able to make a strong case for a cylinder that exceeded that total.
All the best, James