Your survivorship bias is showing. Millions of dives have been made safely without SPGs, backup second stages, dive computers, BCs, gas analyzers, Nitrox, etc... Does that mean that there is no reason to use any of those things?
Note that the OP questions wasn't "is a pony bottle a necessity?". Not sure what the word necessity means in this context, since diving itself isn't a necessity....
It's pretty simple. For a good diver who is situationally aware and knows how to do gas planning, the pony bottle serves as a backup gas supply if you lose your primary gas supply due to equipment failure, or maybe if you meet someone who wasn't so good at gas management. That's it. It is a marginal but real increase in safety for the dive, assuming that you know how to use it.
I really don't understand why every one of these threads devolves into a discussion of how gas planning makes a pony unnecessary. That's not what it's for. It's not a firewall against poor gas planning on the part of the diver carrying it.
I will never plan my dive in such a way that I am totally dependent on my buddy. I have been diving long enough and in enough different situations to know that I need to be able to get myself safely to the surface without depending on anyone. That might be CESA for very shallow dives, or it might be a redundant gas supply.
In the CCR forums, there aren't posts about how bailout is unnecessary because of <lengthy discussion of gas planning and scrubber duration>. If you think that your OC gear is bulletproof because you take good care of it, you may get an unpleasant surprise someday.