Dr. Lecter
Contributor
On the one hand, avoiding upsetting the kind of busybody your first post makes you out to be is one of the reasons I tell my instabuddies that they probably won't see me (and definitely shouldn't follow me) during the dive. If they have a problem with that, alternative arrangements can be made topside.
On the other hand, what exactly does her "going wherever she wanted" have to do with her showing no "regard for the other divers"? As the inverse of what I do, if you felt like you had to keep everyone in sight at all times and felt it was your duty to chase after them in order to do that, it falls on you to make that unusual expectation clear upfront.
In sum, this sounds more like a rant by a bad dive buddy than a bad dive buddy rant.
On the other hand, what exactly does her "going wherever she wanted" have to do with her showing no "regard for the other divers"? As the inverse of what I do, if you felt like you had to keep everyone in sight at all times and felt it was your duty to chase after them in order to do that, it falls on you to make that unusual expectation clear upfront.
In sum, this sounds more like a rant by a bad dive buddy than a bad dive buddy rant.