I think it's at least worth considering that it might be more than she needs ...
However, with less weight I couldn't stay on the bottom. I was awful at doing the fin pivot and trying to hover. My normal above water breathing is taking very deep slow breaths and then long slow exhales. Maybe I should breathe a little shallower under water but it feels very unnatural. When I was trying to hover, I would put a little air in my BC to get me off the bottom but then when I took my usual deep breath I'd go hurtling towards the surface and letting air back out of the BC was the only way to stop the ascent.
Patience is often a key. For some it will take a while to be comfortable breathing underwater. Have patience and strive to relax underwater. Tense body parts require more oxygen than relaxed body parts, even a tense brain. Often, when anxious about breathing underwater, there is not a full exhalation going on. Net buoyancy is higher when you "only" cycle from half full lungs to nearly full lungs, and the oxygen content in the lungs is less than normal because some of the used up lung air never gets out.
You have to get all the bad air out to get a real breath of good air in.
Most people do not take "
very deep slow inhalations and then long slow exhalations" for their "normal breathing pattern. IMHO, most people take about a 2/3 lung full and then do not exhale completely, when breathing normally. For the typical person, I say breath in underwater however much your brain wants to breath in, but control your breathing by concentrating on a full exhalation, lasting about twice as long as the inhalation.
Patience is often the key. First attempts at hover are supposed to happen after successful fin pivots. If you were awful at fin pivots, It sounds likely your instructor should have worked with you on fin pivots more before attempting hover.
The way I was
taught to teach these two skills is to; add "a little bit of air" to the BC and then breath a couple cycles, add a "little more air" if needed and then breath a couple cycles, repeat as necessary until lifting "a little" off the bottom on the inhales (breathing "normally" the whole time). Patience is key.
Now, the fin pivot is about learning our first buoyancy control by learning breathing control; breathing a "little more" than a normal breath will lift you a "little more" off the bottom, and completely breathing out "rapidly" can easily arrest the lift and allow the body to sink, without venting the BC.
"Quickly" breathing in can easily arrest the sinking and turn the momentum around to lift again. Rapidly and quickly are not the goals here, but they are common when first getting the hang of it; lung exhalation is way quicker at buoyancy change than BC filling/venting.
Feeling the change in momentum is key; when you first feel the body rising (or sinking) is when the exhale (or inhale) needs to happen, for it to be a smooth controlled oscillation. Once you have the feel of the momentum change and the timing necessary to make "normal-ish breaths" while rising and falling in a controlled fashion, then you are ready for the hover. By controlled I really mean you can both make small rise/falls by making small volume inhales/exhales and make larger rise/falls by making larger inhales/exhales.
Now, the hover is identical to the fin pivot up to where you start lifting off the bottom a "little bit." Taking a "little bigger" than normal breath will lift you a "little higher" off the bottom, and the air in the BC expands "a little more" to give "a little more" lift as well. So we counteract this extra lift by exhaling as much and as fast as necessary to arrest the lift. When the lift changes to sink we need to inhale as fast and as much as necessary to keep from hitting the bottom. If we can not keep from hitting the bottom with a quick full inhalation, we may need "a little" more air in the BC. If we can not keep from bobbing to the surface with a quick full exhalation, we may need "a little' less air in the BC.
If one really wants to hover with less than 2 inch oscillation, in an 8 ft deep pool, the breaths are not normal; the breaths are "as necessary" to be in significant control of the momentum shifts.
Of course, that's just the static typed version, spontaneously spewed just now and based on my own personal training and experience, of concepts that are hard to elucidate in a static typed way. It's a lot easier with face to face demonstration and witty sarcasm.