About two years ago my wife and I decided to try a resort course in the Bahamas (yes I know that the resort courses are not the best thing to sign on for). We went to a well know operation on Nassau. First we got tossed to the side for paper work, which is understandable, then they told us to wait for the rest of the people and the instructor. Well I guess we didn't rate because they left to do the pool session without us. Of course after a while we inquired as to when they might be getting around to us only to get "Oh we're sorry they left for the pool already.". So they rushed us thru the pool session, I had dove in a pool before this however my wife hadn't. To say the least she was NOT comfortable with the equipment or being underwater in the pool. She decided that it wasn't the that bad and she would try the 30 ft reef dive. We get to the boat and there is me and my wife and the other three girls from the class one decided to bag the dive (she was the smart one!).
Now on the boat are certified divers who have completed their first dive. Needless to say they didn't want to do a 30 ft reef dive they wanted to do a 75 ft wreck dive. So we didn't have a say in the matter and we really didn't know anything until we were at the wreck site, I mean hey how are we supposed to know we've never been on a boat to dive before, silly us believing that the DM wouldn't try to kill us on the very first boat dive of our lives. We followed the DM into the water and start the descent, oh I forgot, they suited us up and during the giant stride entry my wife's weight belt fell off so they had to wrestle one on her while in the water. We start the descent and get about 25 - 30 ft and my wife is getting nervous and just wants to stay there for a minute. The assistant to the DM had other plans though, I guess he decided we were taking too long and grabbed my wife by her BCD and pulled her down to the deck of the wreck 75 ft. AND LEFT HER!!! So of course I'm frantically trying to reach my wife and the DM sees me and thinks I'm in trouble, I signal that I'm OK and point down to my wife the DM looks at me with a horrified look and she tears off after my wife. Meanwhile the Assistant to the DM is looking for others to terrify! Luckly the DM reached my wife and got us back to the boat.
Now never having been certified and not doing much studying on diving we had no idea that this whole scene was highly wrong. In telling people about the fiasco they all say we should have turned the Assistant and the DM into PADI but we where alive and not really thinking much further than getting out of there. Had we been thinking we would have gotten there names and done something if only to save other from our fate.
I am glad to say that after a lot of bravery from my wife, and a lot of coaxing from me, we found a great LDS to certify with and since the resort course debacle we've had nothing but good experiences from instructors and DM's that we have dove with. Of course now we are very careful about who we dive with.
By the way we are both now OW, AOW, Drysuit, and Nitrox certified.
I guess the moral of the story is to know whose hands your putting your life into.....