You all may beat this around all you like. If you want more air, carry more. Don't plan to use your buddy's air. This is not good as your dive plan.
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You keep saying this and refusing to acknowledge that tank size may not be a variable. Most of us have our ideal size tanks when we are diving at home so both buddies use a similar perecentage of their own tank on the same dive, but when we travel, many resorts don't offer much variety on tank sizes. So if two people with dissimilar SAC rates are both stuck with AL 80s you still insist that the sipper end the dive while their tank is still half full so that the hoover can end with a 500 reserve.
Assuming that we are talking about an experienced buddy team (like Peter and Lynne) who know each others SACs very well, and share early and never cut into either divers reserve I fail to see your objection.
If you want to surface when your tank is still half full any time you are buddied with a hoover, that is your perogative, if you want your buddy to surface with a full tank because you've sucked yours down, please don't ask to dive with me.