Unfortunately, this thread will be filled rather quickly with lots of advice on why you should get neither and get a Scubapro/Poseidon/Apeks regulator.
I have had an Abyss for about 3 years and it has always worked well for me. I have an Axis octo. I would recommend the Abyss over the Proton simply due to the cost of the Abyss vs. the proton Ice. The Ice is newer and seems to be the Mares flagship right now, since the Ti Planet and Ruby are disappearing. The cost is set accordingly. In addition, I don't like the color scheme thing that they have going on the Ice. It reminds me of people buying Apple computers based on whether or not they match a room. I've always been a fan of black...
The V32 looks to have the same hose routing as MR22, and I'd bet the insides are strikingly similar. In the end, it probably comes down to the size of the second stage. The other features of the 2 regs look identical, so if you like a smaller second stage, go with the Ice. If you don't mind a little larger second and want to save some money, get the Abyss.
For either, I'd get a Axis or Proton (non-Ice) octo. The Abyss and Ice octo's are pretty high-priced.