Seems like a BP/W with a really light plate is the way to go, or a really minimalist BC that still has nice features like metal Drings and ditch pockets, something like the Outlaw/Rogue/Litehawk.
As I'm in the "great white north" (seacoast NH), is DSS good with remote novices like myself?
As you progress in diving you may discover that proper weighting is better than ditchable weight pockets. A balanced rig should be weighted so that you can swim to the surface at any point in a dive without using your BC or wing. Weight should only be ditched in an emergency at the surface.