I just don't. I see it as training. Like training for a triathlon is not actually doing one. It's not complicated. To me.
I did my OW on Grand Cayman.
Training for a triathlon doesn't usually involve actually doing all the running, biking, and swimming, to the full distances, all back to back, with no breaks (just like a real triathlon) does it? I don't know. I've never even remotely considered training for a triathlon.
Unlike training for a triathlon (I think), training dives are just the same as real dives. You do all the same prep (plus maybe more). You dive. The only difference is potentially having more of a "mission" during a training dive than you would on a fun dive. That doesn't seem like a reason to say that it doesn't count as having done a dive.
Besides, to the surprise of some, scuba is not a competition. Practice for a competition IS different than actual competition. Scuba is not that, so the analogy really does not work at all.
How many times have you run 5 miles? Would you answer by only counting the number of times you've run 5 miles in an actual race? How many dives have you done? That's the same kind of question.