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True DAT! or California for that matter. I'm having a real quandary with my son right now. He got certified in Hawaii; we had a great time and did alot of diving beyond his OWC dives. But I didn't buy him gear cuz I knew he'd just grow out of it quickly, and I don't have that kindof money to throw away. Turns out I was right, he's grown probably 6"; gained weight, lost weight, gained weight..since our Hawaii trip last November, he's now taller than me :11:. During our Memorial Day visit to Socal the conditions were right and I decided it was time for him to break his cherry with CA shore diving; first time he'd been wet since Hawaii and first temperate/lower viz dives; which I don't think was really a factor. However his skills and awareness had diminished quite a bit and I was really unhappy about that, he wasn't familiar with his rental BC so his buoyancy was awful. I really wanted to take him to the lake to work on this stuff prior to the upcoming summer months, but at $50+ for rental gear/day, just to go burn a couple tanks at the lake; not to mention what do I do with my daughter while we're uw, and he's a teenager so anything that comes out of my mouth tends to be taken the wrong way. It just never happened. Now we have a boat trip to Catalina on the 22nd already booked and paid for; but I am hesitant letting him dive, I am trying to ask myself; am I being overly protective [which I am with both my kids] and overly critical of his skills when he's such an inexperienced diver, I mean I've seen a whole h-e-l-l of a lot worse divers. If I don't let him dive, how do I get him more experience without going broke? If I don't let him dive he'll probably just think I'm being an a-hole [what else is new]. I want him to dive, it's really our only common interest and "quality" time he'll spend with me, but I want it to be safe and FUN for the both of us, I didn't have fun last time. I was gonna start a new thread but didn't because of the flames and typical reponses I would have received, maybe I'll reconsider, sometimes somebody will post a gem.Dive-aholic:just like getting certified in 50+ foot viz doesn't prepare you for lake diving. ...
Garrett