I feel kind of silly saying "I agree with TSandM," since she's a thousand times more experienced than I am, but since I know it's always nice to get a range of responses, I'll pipe in with my (very minimal) experience.
I have the bare bones harness and I really like it. Very comfortable for me, even with only a dive skin underneath it.
I also did take a look at the diving I had planned in the near future, and bought the right setup for that, and not for all possible future dives. It is so tempting to think "Well, if I buy smart now, I can avoid duplicating in future." And to a certain extent that is true, but then again... maybe not. I think you can avoid buying something that is just wrong or uncomfortable and that you have to sell or replace entirely; but on the other hand, I don't think you can buy a rig that will mean you don't have to buy other things in future -- unless you only do one kind of diving.
For example, in my case I maximized what I got for Keys diving, which is what I saw myself doing the most of right away. I got a small steel backplate (small because it fit me), a basic harness, and a small wing (which is all I needed for no or minimal exposure suit, and typical aluminum tanks or maybe some not-too-negative steels). The small wing is a pleasure to use, easy to pack, and ... just nice.
On the other hand, there are setups that I might use - even in the Keys - where a larger wing or lighter plate might be called for. For example, an HP80 is 13# negative when full, the plate is 3.8# negative, my regs maybe 1.5#, say maybe 1# for miscellaneous D-rings and etc. That's over 20# of weight that is not coming off the rig, so it's a bit tight for a 17# or 18# wing (I carry my other weight on a weight belt). I think my choices for such a set-up would be to get a lighter plate (aluminum or composite), or a larger wing. Note that I'm just beginning to explore this (as I only just did a few deeper dives which called for different tanks, etc.), so please don't take what I'm saying as gospel (erm... I'm sure other people will chime in if I'm wrong
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At any rate, what I was trying to say is that, as TSandM said, you should make some of the component choices based on your specific diving: Tank buoyancy characteristics (rig should be able to float itself at surface), weight needed to offset exposure suit (hence wing needed to compensate), etc.
Also, if you are going to fly and have baggage weight issues, you might choose a lighter plate and then use more weight that you pick up at your destination.
I actually went through a couple of different wings, an STA vs. no STA, etc. in just the first little while I had my rig (just trying things out); but usually these components seem easy to sell if they are in good shape, so my thinking is that I will figure out what works best for me and then sell any excess (of course after eliminating as many possibilities as I can before buying).
Blue Sparkle
PS: Oh, I meant to add: As far as choosing between brands, well, I think it somewhat depends on what type of person you are. On the one hand, for example, a plate is a plate is a plate. On the other hand... well, I'm a detail person, so I looked at various plates and saw all kinds of little differences, and chose based on that. Others might not notice or care, and of course they do all do the same basic job in the end.