What makes a experienced diver for me could include but is not limited to: his ability to deal with his buoyancy, air consumption, equipment, being able to plan his dive, to read a computer properly and understand what it basically does, to kick efficiently, to not forget his air gauge and his buddy or group, to respect the reefs and the people with whom he is diving (including his guide if there is one),to keep his self control and to have basic diving theory knowledge.
Taking informations about the place he his going to dive, so he doesn't have bad surprises (depth limitation, time limitation, local regulations, level of the other divers on the group, weather paterns, currents...)
Also, being abble to recognise his own limits and admit that the ocean will always be stronger than him. Not matter the equipment, the level of fitness etc...
Even if a beginner diver can be good, and sometimes very good, a diver usually doesn't become what I consider a good diver after 20 dives. Nothing disrespectfull here...
Concrete exemples:
-I love climbing, but unfortunetely, where I live (Maldives) I don't have the chance to practice often (Really? :shocked2
Next time I climb, I'm not going to try the mount Everest, or challenging places...
-Someone who just has his driving licence might not feel really confortable during rush hour on the highway...
All the things I mentionned before come with experience. Taking courses and proper instruction will help, but with no or little practice, it will not make a diver more experienced. Nobody can learn to swim taking information from internet, no matter how hard he reads!
So, dive dive dive, as much as you can (eventually, as much as your wallet allows you
) but don't put yourself (and eventually your buddy or group) in dangerous situations because you think you can handle it. (I'm not saying you will or did, better to prevent than treat.)
Diving in strong current can be really exciting and incredible, regarding adrenaline and things you can see. However, the level that should come with diving this kind of places comes with... experience, and experience usually comes with time, even if I have seen better divers with 50 dives than some with 200.