Hello all. I am the Boyfriend that this thread is about. Here is what my problem is. When I am descending, I can equalize my right ear with no problem. My left ear just seems like it gets stuck and will not equalize. It seems that I have to really exert a lot of pressure to finally get it to open up. Once I am able to get it to open I am good to go for the duration of the dive, unless I come up above 15 feet and then try and descend back down. I do not have any problems while ascending, just descending. I think Rachel was a little confused on that. From our local dive shop where we got certified at; they all mentioned I just need to practice that valsalva multiple times a day. I also think that I let my ears get a bit too much pressure on them before I was clearing and then I really had to put force to equalize them out. That is probably why my ears were hurting. I'm thinking more of a rookie mistake... I should have ascended a few feet and then tried to equalize. I did get better as we were diving more, but I think at that time my ears had already went through a lot of stress. I am writing this on Wednesday the 24th and they are still a little sore feeling but MUCH better than what they have been feeling.
I also do have sinus drainage pretty regular, I do feel that it is just the inexperience and that I will be able to control it a bit more on the next dive. I will also probably take a decongestant before my next dive as many of you have recommended. One of the instructors on our OW Certification dive suggested the same to me.
Thanks for all the help everyone!
Brad Troedel