AZTinman
Contributor
I've seen plenty of students and even some more experienced divers get freaked-out and have problems. Most I've seen have had difficulty with cold water and full exposure gear.
A few years ago while diving Catalina, a guy asked me to help him with his girlfriend. She had tried her first dive with him and flipped-out. Both were experienced divers who had never done any cold water diving. The cold water and hood put her right over the edge. The boyfriend didn't help much because her problems were really crimping his diving plans. She ended-up attaching herself to my arm and we did a nice shallow dive in 10-20 feet of water. Staying shallow with lots of sunlight seemed to help her relax. The boyfriend disappeared to go off and do his thing so a lot of pressure disappeared with him. I've no idea how important diving was in the relationship between these two, but things were pretty tense.
Last winter in Mexico, I watched a pretty good dive instructor work with a student who couldn't relax in a 7mil suit with a hood. His first attempt at passing the skills tests was a bust. The next day he insisted on taking another run at the skills tests. For the second go around, he opted for a 3 mil suit with no hood. Fortunately, he was carrying lots of extra insulation. He passed the tests with no problems at all.
Probably someone has already given you the best advice. We dive because it's supposed to be fun. If you want to dive, relax, proceed with the skills stuff at your own speed and enjoy yourself.
-AZTinman
A few years ago while diving Catalina, a guy asked me to help him with his girlfriend. She had tried her first dive with him and flipped-out. Both were experienced divers who had never done any cold water diving. The cold water and hood put her right over the edge. The boyfriend didn't help much because her problems were really crimping his diving plans. She ended-up attaching herself to my arm and we did a nice shallow dive in 10-20 feet of water. Staying shallow with lots of sunlight seemed to help her relax. The boyfriend disappeared to go off and do his thing so a lot of pressure disappeared with him. I've no idea how important diving was in the relationship between these two, but things were pretty tense.
Last winter in Mexico, I watched a pretty good dive instructor work with a student who couldn't relax in a 7mil suit with a hood. His first attempt at passing the skills tests was a bust. The next day he insisted on taking another run at the skills tests. For the second go around, he opted for a 3 mil suit with no hood. Fortunately, he was carrying lots of extra insulation. He passed the tests with no problems at all.
Probably someone has already given you the best advice. We dive because it's supposed to be fun. If you want to dive, relax, proceed with the skills stuff at your own speed and enjoy yourself.
-AZTinman