Thanks for the candor from everyone, who like me, know what should be done but recognize the compulsion to follow after the buddy in trouble. Briefing before the dive and articulating "escape maneuvers if in a downwell is critical. Remember to move across the current (even a down current) to attempt escape. The buddy who is unaffected, if safe to descend, should do so parallel to the buddy in the current, so the buddy in the current knows a direction to go. The buddy out of the downwell needs to be close at hand, outside the zone of danger, so that if the buddy in the current does have to drop weight and inflate to escape, the other buddy can then close in and assist in buoyancy control as able. The key, as prior posters note, is to not put yourself in the danger zone. There is a difference between rescue and sacrifice. On the other hand, if the affected diver was my lifelong dive buddy and wife Debbie, well, we are going to sink or swim together. We made a pact.
DivemasterDennis