Been to lots of resort - diving & non-diving alike. Not sure about the mix you want but the wife & I just got back from Belize -
www.turneffelodge.com.
This place was excellent - great food, great location, great lodging. Quiet, private and lots of diving. It *is* focused on diving, but I would rate their food as *excellent* and their care as definitely pampered.
When you arrive (by boat - it is on a small, private island at the south end of Turneffe), the entire island has been raked - from the front of your cabana (get a private cabana) all the way to the water. The furniture and buildings look like they've been painted yesterday - the reason, they have 2 full-time staff members just painting and refinishing furniture. When we were there, there were 14 guests, and a staff of 23. The diving is wonderful - and easy. 5 to 10 minute boat rides - and you literally do nothing. The DM's are great - they will switch your gear between dives if you like, take care of the rinsing/carrying, etc.
The cabanas are private and spacious. Each one has a large outdoor shower, as well as a large interior shower/bathroom. The floor, walls and ceiling are all made from Belizean hardwoods. Besides the bed, there are a couch and 2 chairs. A screened-in porch facing the sea with another 2 chairs, and out on the sand are 2 chaise lounges and a hammock for each. Check out the pics in my gallery - they are all from the resort. My photo skills leave a little to be desired, but you'll get the idea.
The people are excellent - friendly, outgoing and dedicated to making sure you have a good time.
Did I mention the food was great?
Possible Downsides -
- It is focused on diving - 3 dives a day, if you want.
- While the food is excellent, you eat at tables of 8. A great way to share stories, but not romantic dining.
- QUIET island - there is nothing else - no town, no nightlife.
- Kayaks & sunfish are available, as is a small swimming pool, if you aren't diving.
- You can explore the island in 20 minutes.
In other words - you are left to yourselves to find/provide entertainment. If laying in a hammock under a thatched shade gazebo and reading a book or staring at the water is your idea of the perfect compliment to the end of a days diving, you will definitely like this place.
If, however, you are looking for spa treatments, private dining and an island to explore, look elsewhere (Anse Chastenet *is* wonderful, as Tim mentioned).
If you need more info or have questions, let me know...
BTW - congrats!