So to pose it a different way. If neither you nor Lynne were to practice air sharing ever again if you two were diving together in 5 years and you had an actual OOA situation do you have any doubt regarding your ability to successfully do it at that point in time?
I would have thought that air sharing was likely to be one of those things that stick with people. Even if it's a royal mess when they need it, they can probably do it well enough to... well, at least to not die.
Well, last Sunday, we had a spring party at a local shop here. I was basically just wandering around listening (hey, it's a hobby), and one conversation rather fascinated me. One group of people got into a conversation about running out of air. One had gone OOA at about 15' at the end of a long (>2 hour) dive. Another had gone OOA when he was younger and dumber. And so the stories went. They were nothing unexpected, and they seemed rather representative of what I would expect in a fairly random (i.e. non-ScubaBoard) selection of divers.
What took me somewhat by surprise was that in each case, the diver telling the story mentioned a failure of their buddy to share air.
In the shallow, long story, the buddy didn't understand the OOA diver. She signaled, but her buddy basically just smiled and didn't really respond. She said that if she'd been deeper, she'd have gone for his air, but at 15', she just exhaled her way to the surface. Once there, she went to inflate her BC, couldn't, and basically ended up treading water. If they'd practiced sharing air, she wouldn't have had to CESA, and if she'd practiced orally inflating her BC, she would've easily had flotation at the surface.
In the younger and dumber story, they were on a normal dive when the diver went OOA. He went to his buddy for air, but his buddy actually refused to share. He ended up heading quickly to the surface. He suffered no apparent ill effects, but had they been practiced in sharing air, would his urgent request have been refused?
The standard assumption is that if you go OOA, your buddy will be there to bail you out. Obviously, that's not always the case (your buddy may be just about OOA, too, especially if you have similar air consumption), but it's generally accepted. Hearing several stories in which air sharing did not happen makes me suspect the assumption.
Anyway, having heard several stories last Sunday in which divers' OOA experience included a failure of air sharing, I believe I'll start being more proactive about practicing "real" (i.e. non-stationary) air shares. If I help people practice sharing air, perhaps the assumption that air will be shared will become more true than it was in each of the stories from the party.