But isn't it OK for some of us to aspire to the finesse and perfection that others don't feel the need to achieve?
Sure, almost any dope can drop to 130 on the Munson (hehehehe, I'm sure you get it), flail around, and come up, and actually have a good time. (been there, done that).
No probs there personally, but is it OK if others try to perform better?
Absolutely nothing personal Big Jim, and maybe your son was more mature than some at 8 years, but I won't let my one child, who is 11 1/2 dive for a few more years yet. It's a personal matter for the parents, and our feeling is, even 12 isn't old enough to be making grown-up, rational descisions, if required.
What keeps most people safe is the (almost) infalibility of the gear, and a load of good fortune, sprinkled with short enough bottom times, to cover up their horrendous diving practices.
Yes I've seen your son dive, and yes he's pretty darn agile and quite at home in the water. I could tell that immediately.
Good luck with the boat, but I have to say, I hope to be one of your customers next year, again.
Steve (Freeflow Divers Niagara).