Well detroit, you've had your say!
You're a better diver than we are.
You're more moral than we are.
You know more about diver mentality and training than we do.
You are the hero and will save every diver in trouble for us.
We got your message so now you can relax in the knowledge that it got through. Stop shouting!!
Please email your resume and diving credentials to Ms. Stanborough at
dive@scuba2000.com . We've been looking for the 'perfect' scuba facility employee for many years.
Check out how you've interpreted my comments:
At no time did I say I wouldn't help a diver in trouble.
At no time did I say I wouldn't help my buddy if he was in trouble.
At no time did I say I wouldn't share air.
At no time did I say I wouldn't donate my octo.
At no time did I say I'd laugh as my buddy shot to the surface.
At no time did I say I would allow my buddy to "suffer".
I did say "...I would not buddy breath with another diver."
Where did you come up with all this other s...?
It doesn't sound to me as though you so much interested in discussing the topic as you are in twisting my words and shooting off! In the last few posts you've added nothing of any value. Even other readers have tried to straighten you out but you're too bullheaded to listen. Whatever..
With respect to your denigrating comments about my scuba facility and staff, I will say that we've been directly responsible for the training of close to 20,000 divers from which hundreds of instructors and store owners in dozens of different countries have developed. The effective total today is almost uncalculable.
Big deal!! You're right. It's not the number of divers I've trained that really matters. But it is the number of divers who I've helped in an emergency during all that training that have given me a firm grip on the reality of diving problems and hence my comments.
My comments don't come from a few years and couple of screw-ups. They come from 45 years of diving and 34 years in the scuba industry. They come from first hand observation of divers who didn't have their head on straight and paid the price. They come from listening to touchy-feely divers who would "always help their buddy regardless of the circumstances" and paid the price. They come from being part of investigations of other's diving tragedies. They come from a strong sense of self preservation because I'm no good to myself, my buddy, my family or anyone if I don't return from a dive. It's that sense that has kept me safe through thousands of dives in every harsh environment with many dive buddies who were not completely comfortable underwater.
Re-read your own posts DD. Then try to make an objective evaluation of who in this thread has an attitude; who in this thread clearly doesn't understand a thing about safe diving; who in this thread hasn't the sense to listen to and consider a different viewpoint.
To those in control, to those who want to improve their diving skills and become better divers, do as I suggested in the beginning before DD lost it and look up the diving accident stats. The stats don't tell you everything but they do make you think about and perhaps re-order your priorities.
Buddy Breathing is history and good riddance.
Controlled Emergency Ascents are quite safe, are taught to new divers, are performed by new divers in their first open water dives and are the logical choice in an out-of-air emergency in shallow water.
Safe Seconds may help in the rest of the circumstances.
I will sleep well tonight knowing that DD will NOT be diving in the same body of water as I. Good luck to the rest of you. And before you lump me in with all the other name-calling a..holes, this is not a baseless personal insult nor a reference to his diving skills about which I have no knowledge. He may be a fine diver. I am very concerned about his inability to accept that someone else has a viewpoint - maybe even a better viewpoint based on experience and knowledge.
Dive buddies who are always right are almost as dangerous as dive buddies who are always wrong. At least you can prepare for the latter.