I should have skipped the first dive, and I definitely should have ended the dive early when I had so much trouble with breathing and buoyancy. I will definitely take heed of your advise to do an easier dive the next time I go somewhere unfamiliar. I could only get in 4 dives on this business trip, so I didn't want to skip the first one.
Historically I've been very bad about calling dives when I'm not having fun, but usually there's a reason I'm not having fun and it can easily be the start of the incident pit. I've recently gotten much better about things like this.
He had just had his second stage serviced at the manufacturer, so it was really strange that it was leaking water.
I wouldn't take a reg on a serious dive that I hadn't dove in benign conditions at least a few times since the last service. Taking stuff apart and putting it back together always introduces a possibility for mistakes.
...instead ended up trying to share my primary. If that is what comes natural to me, I ought to practise it that way, and maybe get a bungeed octo necklass.
I think primary donate makes sense for a lot of reasons. Regardless of whether you use a necklace (I do and I love it), make sure you know where your other second is before you give yours away.