peejymvl
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ok I am becoming a jabar-jaw, sorry, but if I dont ask, I will never know....
I originally was gonna sign my wife up for the course, but my own fears, lead me to not include her. I know it sounds a little selfish, but my wife is a very emotional person, and let me tell you about her fears. I have never in my life seen anyone so scared of bugs, I once saw her jump on top of a car while screaming bloody murder, because there was a spider in her cars front seat when she opened the door, a very very small one at that, like the size of a pens tip, seriously. I guess I am affraid that she will not tell me if she is uncomfortable, and may hurt herself simply to avoid spoiling my fun, or maybe she will tell me she is not comfortable, all the time, and I may never see the sea? I want to include my wife so very much, I can only imagine the amazing sites to see, I have dreamed of it for years, but lets be honest, it aint cheap, and it does require alot of mature decisions.(two reasons I waited so long to get into this) After reading some of the stories, seeing what can happen when someone panics, or simply just doesnt know what to do, I have the gravest fear that my wife could easily be one of those accidents just waiting to happen. If she were to see a body, or large fish, or anything out of her everyday routine, would she freak ? would I be smart enough, quick enough, and ready enough to save her? I dont want her to get hurt, or even worse dead, but I do want to share this with her, an recomendations?
I originally was gonna sign my wife up for the course, but my own fears, lead me to not include her. I know it sounds a little selfish, but my wife is a very emotional person, and let me tell you about her fears. I have never in my life seen anyone so scared of bugs, I once saw her jump on top of a car while screaming bloody murder, because there was a spider in her cars front seat when she opened the door, a very very small one at that, like the size of a pens tip, seriously. I guess I am affraid that she will not tell me if she is uncomfortable, and may hurt herself simply to avoid spoiling my fun, or maybe she will tell me she is not comfortable, all the time, and I may never see the sea? I want to include my wife so very much, I can only imagine the amazing sites to see, I have dreamed of it for years, but lets be honest, it aint cheap, and it does require alot of mature decisions.(two reasons I waited so long to get into this) After reading some of the stories, seeing what can happen when someone panics, or simply just doesnt know what to do, I have the gravest fear that my wife could easily be one of those accidents just waiting to happen. If she were to see a body, or large fish, or anything out of her everyday routine, would she freak ? would I be smart enough, quick enough, and ready enough to save her? I dont want her to get hurt, or even worse dead, but I do want to share this with her, an recomendations?