Had the same DM for 2 weeks on Roatan. Before first dive I explained that; 1, I had a SDI solo card and was equipped and had the skill set to dive solo, 2, I was not going into enclosed places (Calvin's Crack), 3, I would stay close to the group but at a more modest depth. Screw etiquette! I'm spending big bucks for very short times underwater. I'm paying them. I'll dive my dive.
One reason Bonaire has been my favorite is the freedom to dive any way you want. Now that I'm finding Bon too strenuous for me I will have to search for places that will allow me the freedom to dive as I wish. So far that hasn't been a problem. For example, on GC it was no problem to not penetrate the Kittywake (someone tried to drown me when I was younger and I ain't going anywhere I can't immediatly surface). DM said - "just meet us at our exit place in about an hour". On the second dive the DM offered to accompany me and was fine with my wanting to wander alone. NOTE: I was fully solo equipped.
I'm headed for Placencia in mid April. I fully expect to dive with a group, as the DM defines the dive, fast/slow/stopped - it doesn't matter. I'm hoping to dive with whale sharks and whatever I am expected to do I will comply. I have no expectation to dive solo.
My only concern is that I will live up to standards - I never assume that my skills are good enough. Every dive I do, I test what I am able to accomplish. Weighting & trim are paramount. I compare myself to the trumpetfish. As long as I can hover vertically head down, head up, horizontally facing down and facing up I figure that I can accomplish what I need to on any dive.
I love this mentality and confidence! I should have noted above: I’m confident and independent, just with my forever dive buddy, my husband. Ha!
You solo divers are a whole other incredible level of independence!