My top 3 for a birthday dinner:
Capriccio's food, wine list and service is stellar. Lola does a stellar job stocking well priced, unusual, small vints and is a valuable resource for food paring. Reserve a table outside (inside is very loud) and watch the sunset.
Mona Lisa is another favorite, sit street side and watch the town stroll by. Monique is a great resource and fellow foodie, never feel rushed.
Wils Tropical Grill the courtyard setting is heavenly, truly feels tropical.
I've celebrated several birthdays at Mona Lisa and Wils, but the view at Capriccio trumps them both. As long as the Freewinds isn't docked across the street pumping off waste (as it was in March) the view is lovely.