hard to suggets without more info about your diving:
warm/cold water, wet/dry, purely recreational/any specialties, singles/doubles, travel/local?
then there is the decision "classic BCD" vs. backplate with wing (BP/W). If you read here, you can grow old until you are through all threads on the subject
Maybe my personal experience helps, even though I have no idea whether it's close to your diving habits:
after starting out diving without any BCD (25years ago), I first had a Scubapro "jacket" and later an Oceanic Shute with weight integration.
First I thought the Shute was the greatest thing since sliced bread, until I realised how darn heavy it is on land, and obstructing under water. Especially bad when travelling.
4 years ago, I switched to a BP/W setup and am very happy: almost as unobstructed as it was when I started diving, but with all the convenience of a BCD and weight integration (I hate weight belts).This decision had little to do with "DIR" or tech diving, but was driving by the quest for a simpler, lighter, more convenient setup. My complete rig incl. some "special" extras (weight integration, pocket ) now weighs around 7 pounds, or less than half of the previous BCD.
So based on my personal experience, I would always suggest a BP/W now. Brand doesn't matter so much, as the basic construction is quite similar: 3 choices of material for the plate (steel, aluminium, plastic), two basic shapes of the wing (horse shoe vs. donut), many different sizes of wing based on lifting needs.
Prices differ widely, though.
I recommend NOT buying any additional accessories (pockets, padding, "special" harnesses, ...) at first, but to try out the most basic setup with "hog" harness.
My setup is a "Kydex" backplate and "LCD30" wing from Deepseasupply, along with a basic ("hog" or "Hogarthian") harness. Many other brands are also very fine (Halcyon, Dive Rite, OMS, Zeagle, ....).
My choice was because of the unique backplate (very light weight yet tough plastic) and very narrow wing shape. This was driven by my need to have a lightweight setup for traveling and as little as possible drag, but be able to also use it for local cold water diving. I only dive singles, for doubles I would need another wing.
Deepseasupply also has, I believe, very reasonable prices compared to many others.
I later added "my own" weight integration, see a recent thread in the "Deepseasupply" subforum.
I cannot make any recommendations regarding specific "conventional" BCDs, but in my experience recent scuba gear from any of the "big names" usually is very good (Scubapro, Mares, Oceanic ...). If it shall be a regular BCD, don't fall for any of the "fancy new inventions" like integrated air hoses. Just get a middle-of-the range unit that fits your body and your budget
Last not least: try a few different setups before you spend the big bucks.
Safe Diving!
d.s.f.