Jaksonbrown
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Has anyone here who is an experienced diver ever got their spouse or significant other involved in diving? Im sure there has.... my question is this....
My wife loves to dive, but is VERY VERY slow swimmer,.. I am working on her kicking technique with her, but it is going slow.... In a current,.. I have to litterally drag her along to keep from getting swept out to sea at certain sites....
Consequently my anxiety level of worring about her and constantly keeping an eye on her has made my diving experience miserable. I sit here depressed as hell due to a dive we had yesterday in which we once again got pushed by the current and had to make a unplanned for accent and a long surface swim....She can see my frustrations and is getting down herself... Her complaint is that she just cannot keep up with me and I am doing frog kicks just barely moving....
You instructors out there.... How long does this go on before it gets better?... Any suggestions on training aids, tips, etc?...
I really want to dive with my wife, but somehow I have to get her to a point that I am not panicing about her safety and making myself miserable at the same time....
Has anyone ever tied another diver to themselves with a tether?
I would greatly appreciate any advice anyone could give me....
Edit,... To those just reading this,.. perhaps I painted a bad picture... I am not dragging my wife around by the hair or anything,.. she has a tendency to get disoriented, wander off,.. or just float away in the current without trying to stop herself....
I am looking for possitive suggestions on how to help her become a better diver as well as positive suggestons on how I can be a better teacher and companion....
This is not a bitchin session about her shortcomings, but hopefully a valuable tool to educate myself better and make her time in the water more enjoyable...
Thanks again,...
Samson-
My wife loves to dive, but is VERY VERY slow swimmer,.. I am working on her kicking technique with her, but it is going slow.... In a current,.. I have to litterally drag her along to keep from getting swept out to sea at certain sites....
Consequently my anxiety level of worring about her and constantly keeping an eye on her has made my diving experience miserable. I sit here depressed as hell due to a dive we had yesterday in which we once again got pushed by the current and had to make a unplanned for accent and a long surface swim....She can see my frustrations and is getting down herself... Her complaint is that she just cannot keep up with me and I am doing frog kicks just barely moving....
You instructors out there.... How long does this go on before it gets better?... Any suggestions on training aids, tips, etc?...
I really want to dive with my wife, but somehow I have to get her to a point that I am not panicing about her safety and making myself miserable at the same time....
Has anyone ever tied another diver to themselves with a tether?
I would greatly appreciate any advice anyone could give me....
Edit,... To those just reading this,.. perhaps I painted a bad picture... I am not dragging my wife around by the hair or anything,.. she has a tendency to get disoriented, wander off,.. or just float away in the current without trying to stop herself....
I am looking for possitive suggestions on how to help her become a better diver as well as positive suggestons on how I can be a better teacher and companion....
This is not a bitchin session about her shortcomings, but hopefully a valuable tool to educate myself better and make her time in the water more enjoyable...
Thanks again,...
Samson-
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